“If something is irrational, that means it won't work. It's usually unrealistic.”
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People could rationally decide that prolonged relationships take up too much time and effort and that they'd much rather do other kinds of things. But most people are afraid of rejection.
People got insights into what was bothering them, but they hardly did a damn thing to change.
The art of love is largely the art of persistence.
We teach people that they upset themselves. We can't change the past, so we change how people are thinking, feeling and behaving today.